Awakening the sensual self
Tantric massage is a sharing experience, and many recipients of Tantra massage in Birmingham return for extended tuition and a greater understanding of the principles that form the foundation of the Tantra philosophies.
These massages can enable you to experience sensations and emotions at a much deeper level than you’ve previously felt, and our skilled practitioners will act as your guide through this journey of discovery. There are a wide range of approaches to Tantric massage so spend a little time clicking through the services so you a tune if this is for you. Tantric healers practice Tantra in a way that’s personal to them, so taking a few minutes to find what ‘clicks’ with you. This is the first step towards your Tantric journey. It is important to recognise that every Tantric Massage session is different. Not just with each different person, but every session too. There is no such thing as a ‘typical’ Tantric Massage session. Each and every experience is personally tailored to suit YOU and your needs in that particular moment, so what I am describing here is a very basic outline of what you may experience.
The sessions usually take place, in my therapy room located in Birmingham city centre When you arrive you will be greeted by a Tantric Massage therapist. The therapist will sit with you while you and go through some simple medical history and payment of any outstanding balance in cash.
You will be given a basket with a robe or sarong and towel and you will take a shower. After changing into the robe or sarong (whichever you prefer) you and one of the beautiful therapists will lead you to the therapy room.
This is a place of calm and relaxation where there is no agenda or expectations. It is a time to chat about your massage experiences, expectations, lifestyle and personal boundaries.
The therapist will answer any questions you may have. It is paramount for the benefit of everyone that you are comfortable and feel at ease with the therapist and the Tantric Massage therapy you are about to experience.
I will then talk with you a little more about the session and I will share some simple Tantric practices such as meditation and breath work, to guide you into a deepened state of relaxation and connection.
We will then move into the Tantric Massage.
You will disrobe (so you are naked) and lie face-down on the giant futons and cushions. I will start by massaging your back and entire body with natural non-scented oil, allowing you to relax into the touch and start to receive deeply. At some point I will invite you to turn over and I will continue the massage with the front of your body.
A few words about Tantric Massage
Tantric Massage is a deeply honouring massage that will relax your entire body. It is about enlivening the whole body to a state of deliciousness and aliveness that you may never have felt before. I will guide you in the transformative process of charging your whole body with sexual energy, as you start to discover that every cell in your body can be orgasmic.
Tantric Massage is about the whole body, including the sexual organs and not solely focused on the genitals. Tantric Massage is about allowing that delicious feeling of arousal or bliss or whatever you are feeling, to flow through your WHOLE body and not isolate or focus on it in one area only.
Lingham massage. The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam and is loosely translated as Wand of Light. In Tantra or Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honoured, as a Wand of Light that channels creative energy and pleasure. Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, including testicles, perineum and sometimes Sacred Spot (prostate) externally, allowing you to surrender to a form of pleasure you may not be accustomed to. Men need to learn to relax and receive. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.
While clients occasionally ejaculate, that is not the focus of ANY authentic Tantra practice. If you feel the energy of ejaculation starting to build too much, BREATHE MORE and just lift your hand to let me know. I will help guide your energy into your whole body. If an ejaculation happens that’s also perfect - it’s just not what we are aiming for in a Tantric Massage session.
A Tantric Massage session for you is completely about receiving, about allowing yourself to feel worshipped and adored. It is totally non reciprocal touch as this distracts you from your experience of connecting more intimately with yourself. It is very powerful just to receive, let go of control and surrender to receiving.
Your job is to receive and breathe, then breathe some more. I will show you some Tantric breathing techniques and visualisations to help you expand and experience MORE!
After the massage, I will leave you for 5 or 10 minutes to lie quietly and absorb what you are feeling. When I return, we have a little time to talk about what you have experienced or to ask any questions you may have and to discuss next steps. You may then take a shower before you leave
Code of Ethics:
Tantric Massage is always non reciprocal touch: you will stay in passive receiving mode, accepting the gift of just receiving. Although we will be working with your sexual energies and strong urges may come up for you, there will be no kissing, oral sex or intercourse during the session, and I will initiate all body contact. It is very powerful just to receive, let go of control and surrender, so please do not push boundaries and spoil the session by being dishonourable, otherwise your session will be terminated immediately.